A Broken Dating Culture and the Modern Woman

5’3 and Attitude? Nobody wants it. She’s crying because no man wants to deal with her OF history and insufferable feminism? Good. Set the standard and maintain it.

For the purpose of this article “modern woman” contextually refers to left-wing and neo-conservative women of varying ages that have an inflated sense of self-worth and/or an unrealistic apprehension of collective male behaviour that borders on psychosexual fantasy (unfortunately the vast majority of women in the dating pool). The writing of this article was deemed necessary to fight the blackpills emanating from modern dating culture that are preventing men of our movement from finding happiness with the opposite sex. Rather than dropping out of it completely, we advocate a temporary hiatus from dating culture to increase the demand for men by starving the modern woman of attention while men continue to improve themselves and not lower their reasonable standards – and by default their own value – to gain access to low value modern women, thereby encouraging those women to meet said reasonable standards, in turn raising their value (unless they’re “sex workers”) and fixing the disparity of expectations/standards between the sexes when it comes to selecting a partner.

Dating has never been easy. The initial approach is always a bit of a daunting task that requires strategy and subtlety unless you’re in that top 1% of attractiveness. Prior to the global-homo infection dating was a much more enjoyable experience, full of people that were mostly mature, reasonable and well-adjusted, so what’s changed? Women like to blame men for the dramatic shift in dating culture. They say men are now more aggressive when they get rejected, that they’re all players, that they’re more judgmental and so on, but what most women don’t do is look at their role in how dating culture has changed. For the most part, men haven’t really changed how they approach dating. They still do the chasing, still have realistic expectations, and still employ clever or jovial strategies that can be fun for women to play off.

The issue is that the role women play in dating — primarily the role of being chased — is still the same, but unlike the generations of our mothers and grandmothers, modern women come loaded with a lot of ideological and philosophical baggage. For example, they still believe men should chase them, making the initial approach, despite them being against what they view as antediluvian notions regarding traditional gender roles. Furthermore, modern women have an inflated sense of worth as a result of feminism and body positivity culture. In addition to that, there is an abundance of low value women as a result of high body counts that didn’t really exist in your mother or grandmother’s generation. To paraphrase a conclusion reached by another, what this all results in is men having to work 20x harder for women that are 20x worse than your mother or grandmother’s generation.

It is utterly insane that before dating a modern woman you have to inquire if they have an Only Fans account or have ever performed sexual acts on camera. That’s like the equivalent of your father or grandfather asking if your mother or grandmother had ever worked as a prostitute when they were courting – absurd. What is even more insane is that modern women will throw a fit or make a video of them crying in their car when a man has enough self-respect and common sense to reject an OF whore as a potential future wife and/or mother for his children. These women actually think that they shouldn’t lose value for a history of recorded promiscuity and shouldn’t be locked out of being mothers and wives, when the boyfriend/husband and their children are going to have to suffer the indignity and dishonor of everyone that knows them being able to recount a time when their girlfriend/mother was railed on camera and thousands of men paid money to see it and wanked over it. It doesn’t matter how hot they are because to men of good sense with self-respect these women lose all of their viability for the role of a life partner and child bearer because they have debased themselves.

Standards exist for a reason, but standards only apply to modern women in the sense that they won’t settle for a man without a 401K, whose at least six-foot tall and has a six-pack, or a man that is willing to become a stay at home husband so she can eat her cake and have it too as both bread winner and mother, yet they expect men to lower their standards for appearance, economic status, body count, and cam work when it comes to them. On the other hand, men aren’t that interested in a woman’s economic position, nor are they that bothered about women’s bodies provided it shows that they make an effort to look after themselves and don’t suffer from an eating disorder, and that they are feminine as opposed to attempted masculine surrogates AKA feminists. All modern women have to be to appeal to men as girlfriend/wife material is: (1) not be a shitlib, AWFL or career woman; (2) look after themselves; (3) be reasonable in their expectations; and (4) not be a documented slut. Yet, they are incapable of fulfilling all four conditions unless you get extremely lucky, so men have to compromise on one or more of those conditions to find a girlfriend and a potential wife/mother for their children, which they do. Meanwhile, modern women refuse to lower their standards and temper their expectations because they have an inflated sense of self-worth and as such believe that men should change for them, accommodate them and their multitudes of psychological baggage, all while possessing the audacity to state that men should be the ones to “shoot the shot” instead of them because they don’t deserve the humiliation of rejection.

Many of you have likely seen the video of the woman approaching the man in the gym and getting rejected. As predicted, the response to that video from modern women was polarizing. On one hand you had women saying things like, “See? It’s not hard to take rejection. Men should take note instead of becoming aggressive.” On the other hand you had others saying that women shouldn’t be the ones to chase men because they get humiliated. What that video proved is that for too long modern women have been accustomed to relying on their looks alone (which explains why women that aren’t equivalent to IG models are having a hard time with dating as well) because the woman in the video, while attractive, lacked “game”.

The opening play began with “Hi”, to which he reciprocated with the same greeting followed by her asking how he was. That’s it. And this was all done in the most monotone and disinterested sounding voice you have ever heard. Who would want even a standard conversation with someone who approaches like that, let alone reciprocate flirtation? Moreover, she approached him while he was in the middle of a set, while he was in the zone. That’s just something you don’t do, especially to a man. So not only was she boring, but she committed a faux pas in gym culture, rightly resulting in him rejecting her and saying, “Honestly, I just want to work out”, a response she met with an “okay” as she put her earphones back in. Worst of all, she was recording the entire thing as if she was anticipating him flirting back. Now if he had, and numbers (sorry, “snap” or “insta”) had been exchanged, then later he stumbled across her video, he would have rightly concluded that she’s insecure on account of her online validation seeking, a trait that can be forgiven, even found to be endearing, if not for her seeking of validation from complete strangers, an act that is just pathetic and a massive turn off for most men.

Despite all of this, none of what I just mentioned was even remarked upon by the modern women in the comment section. It was all the man’s fault or a celebration of the way she handled her rejection because “men will just attack and rape you if you reject them”, a view so far removed from reality it cannot even be fathomed, as men typically take it on the chin, get a ribbing from their boys and then it’s forgotten about. And again, this is a delusion that stems from the Handmaid’s Tale type feminism that posits all men want to attack, rape and impregnate women. This is all part of the schizo neuroticism that seems to be synonymous with modern women, something that men did not have to deal with back in our mother or grandmother’s generation and something that again contributes to how modern women are 20x worse and men have to work 20x harder.

In the end, most men decide that the juice isn’t worth the squeeze and bow out of the dating game. Then, modern women have the gall to criticize the so-called “manospehere” when they are partly responsible for the creation of its culture by being insufferable, entitled, Janus-faced schizos that cannot take accountability for their own actions and play the victim card at every opportunity. Fortunately, despite feminists platitudes, women eventually follow the men and perform for them to get their attention when they are starved of it, which means the onus is now on modern women to change, to shake off the “modern” and become something more palatable to actual men.

There’s hope for the dating scene yet but men have to continue to starve modern women of attention, to reject them no matter how hot they are, and to call them out for being trash. No one is more qualified for that task than the man making his way along the 3.0 path, for that man has recognized that he can become something better than what he is and can carve out a path that goes against the grain of the modern state of simping men, therefore elevating what is merely aesthetic to what is aesthetic and of decent character. He notices an attractive women of his race and says to himself, “I hope she’s not just a pretty face that chases trends and regurgitates mainstream narratives” (even though probability favors that she will be), because unlike the MGTOW types he still has hope that beneath her stunning body and warm smile there is sentience – a woman instead of a “foid”.

https://will2rise.substack.com/p/a-broken-dating-culture-and-the-modern